Humility is the practice of being modest and respectful. It means recognizing that no one is superior or inferior, and being open to learning from others. True humility involves acknowledging our strengths and limitations without arrogance or self-deprecation.
Pride vs. Humility:
“…the essential vice, the utmost evil, is Pride. Unchastity, anger, greed, drunkenness, and all that, are mere flea bites in comparison: it was through Pride that the devil became the devil. Pride leads to every other vice: it is the complete anti-God state of mind…… it is Pride which has been the chief cause of misery in every nation and every family since the world began. Pride is spiritual cancer: it eats up the very possibility of love, or contentment, or even common sense.”
-C.S. Lewis
Within our current American culture the humble are characterized as weak and the glorification of “ones-self” through the degradation of others is seen as a strength. However, for just as pride is the root of all sin, so “humility is the root, mother, nurse, foundation, and bond of all virtue,” as John Chrysostom once remarked.
Why Practice Humility?
Humility allows us to build stronger relationships, grow as individuals, and remain open to new experiences and perspectives. When we practice humility, we become more compassionate, understanding, and resilient.
How to Cultivate Humility:
- Listen More: Engage in active listening and be genuinely interested in what others have to say.
- Admit Mistakes: Acknowledge when you’re wrong and use it as an opportunity to learn.
- Celebrate Others’ Success: Rejoice in the achievements of others without comparison.
- Seek Feedback: Be open to constructive criticism and different viewpoints.
- Practice Gratitude: Reflect on what you’re thankful for, recognizing that life’s blessings are often shared with others.
“Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it’s thinking of yourself less.”
-C.S. Lewis
