Dependable – We do what we say we are going to do, every time, no exceptions!
This virtue points out the behaviors that exemplify characteristics such as being trustworthy, steadfast, stable, and reliable.
A great example of dependability is found in Civil War history. General Thomas Jonathan “Stonewall” Jackson was a West Point graduate and served in the Confederate army under the command of General Robert E. Lee during the war. He received the nickname Stonewall after the first battle of Bull Run also know as the First Battle of Manassas.
During the battle Jackson arrived on horseback and positioned himself prominently on the high ground of the field. He rallied the troops and changed the tide of the battle. Jackson was shot in the hand as he held it up to direct and encourage the troops. This did not deter him from remaining resolute, as the men were depending on him to lead them to victory. Jackson continued be dependable in his military service, carrying out his orders until his death later in the war. He was so dependable, trustworthy and effective that General Lee called him his “right arm”!
Is dependability a virtuous behavior that can be measured? Yes it can be. Here are some observable measurements:
- Being on-time (early) for appointments and meetings
- Following through on commitments
- Communicating clearly when there are changes in a appointment, plan or project
- Paying bills on time
Being dependable shows that serving others is a priority and that their time and resources are valuable.
